One of the hardest question's people ask their friends is, "How can I get my wife back after an affair?" When a relationship breaks down, it feels for some people like their life has ended, but there are ways to get a partner back. If you have patience and determination, anything is possible. I have had a few friends in the past who have had this problem, and I could only offer them advice from the heart.

A friend called me one day, totally out of the blue with the question, "How can I get my wife back after an affair?" I was shocked, and speechless, probably for the first time in my life. The first question I asked him was why me? Why have you come to a female friend and not one of your male friends. His answer was simple, you know her, and your female too, so your advice would be better than any of my male friends. He was right, a lot of his male friends were not advice experts, and they would probably end up getting drunk, and I'm sure you can guess the rest.

He came to me, and I guess I should have been honored, but I really didn't know what to say. The only advice I offered him was to be patient and don't give up. If he really did want her back, and could forgive her for the affair, then he was a stronger and better man than most. Most men would run a mile, and not take them back, but that's true love I guess.

I didn't want to get involved but I already was. The relationship took a while to bond back together, but with patience and determination, there was a happy ending. I know my advice probably wasn't the best, but maybe to him it was. Anyone can build up trust and love again, as long as both parties work together.

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