If you have been dumped, it is not always easy to understand why.
Sometimes we can have the impression that it comes out of the blue and leaves us wondering what went wrong.
Understanding some of these reasons can be the key to patching things up and getting back together or even avoiding breaking up in the first place.
1: You stopped listening.
You don't need to be an agony aunt hanging on her every word, in fact that is the last thing you should be (this will just be irritating to her), but you must be receptive to what she is saying.
If you aren't listening, you aren't interested in her, and who wants that? 2: You didn't communicate.
We are know how difficult it is for us guys to "say what we feel" and this is not always a good plan anyway.
But you have to give a bit.
A relationship involves give and take and that means sharing sometimes a bit more than we are used to.
3: You put your friends first.
A relationship isn't about sacrificing everything, but any woman who feels that she is a poor second to your friends isn't going to be satisfied for long.
4: The spark has gone.
After a while, it is easy to fall into a routine.
Sometimes it is important to surprise her (and yourself).
Take her out for a meal, bring back some flowers.
it doesn't need to be excessive (although now and again excessive is good too), but it should be something and not just once in a blue moon.