The experience of mending a broken heart is one of the most difficult episodes in a person's life.
Studies show that losing a relationship can create the same type of sadness as when a loved one dies.
The pain is entirely consuming.
How much longer are you going to go without eating or sleeping? And is it feasible to restore the relationship? If salvaging the relationship is what you really desire, then it's important that you understand what to do and say to get back with the one you love...
and avoid the common mistakes almost everyone makes.
Ask you yourself if a reunion is the right thing to do.
Is it right for the two of you? If a reunion is what you sincerely want, then you're going to have to stop all needy/pushy behavior.
When you come across as pushy you give away all your power.
Arguing or trying to "sell" yourself will only drive them farther away.
This means absolutely no more late night phone calls, emails, texting, etc.
Think about it...
if someone is throwing themselves at you, what's your initial reaction? You're nearly always turned off.
And you just want them to stop...
it makes you uncomfortable.
Develop an attitude of detachment.
This is not going to be easy, especially if you are in a hurry to restore the relationship and you're in the middle of mending a broken heart.
Staying busy doing positive things for yourself helps a lot.
Not only will this help you get back your independence, but it will also send a message to your ex that your life is going great without them.
The strategy outlined here is very effective.
Because now you're working with human nature instead of fighting it If you defy the temptation to start behaving needy and instead adopt an attitude of independence and detachment, you'll be surprised at how quickly your ex will regain interest.
Now you will both be able to come together as equals...
and work on repairing the relationship.