It's not easy to let go of bad relationships but it's something that must be done so that you can move on.
You will find many self help types of books and eBooks on getting your ex back and healing after a heart break but very few really address the importance of letting go of a relationship that isn't healthy.
Letting go is important for you both because it just might be that you are much better suited for someone else than you are for one another.
So, what's the first step in letting go of someone who isn't good for you no matter how much you love that person? Build yourself up.
Most bad relationships are the result of insecurities on one or both sides of the relationship coin.
You need to learn your own self worth or you'll never convince someone else of it.
You might believe your ex sees your worth and that it is only through your ex that this worth exists.
That isn't true.
You just need to learn to value yourself and others will learn to value you as well.
Consider self help books, subliminal recordings, and even private counseling sessions if necessary but you need to find your own value and believe in yourself before you'll be able to let go of the security blanket your bad relationship provides.
Venture out on your own.
The second step is exploring the great big world out there.
There is a huge world that moves outside the realm of your bad relationship.
It's hard to see that world when you're wrapped up in a relationship gone wrong but once you see that world your relationship and the importance of it will seem so much smaller by comparison.
Get out there.
Explore.
Watch.
Live.