Ex Dating Someone Else?It Isn"t As Bad As You Think
The worst thing you can do when you find out your exboyfriend is dating again is lose hope.
Rebound relationships are bound to happen, and in fact sometimes even increase the chances of you getting back together with your boyfriend.
Why? Because by jumping straight into another relationship, your ex hasn't had the chance to reconcile your existing relationship.
He dumped you, and rather than deal with his feelings regarding the break up...
immediately replaced you with some new girl.
Now this might not make you feel better, at least right now.
But console yourself with the knowledge that most rebound relationships don't last very long.
A few weeks from now, at most, your ex's little fling will be over.
And he'll be standing there alone, emotionally spent, looking for something familiar to make him feel better.
That's where you come in.
When a guy breaks up with you, it's not always permanent.
Most of the time he's just looking for an escape, or some time off.
In the interim, if he happens to find somebody else, it doesn't mean he doesn't still love you.
It could easily mean he's distracted by something outside of your relationship - someone else.
This new girlfriend makes him feel good about himself at a time when he's just ended your relationship, and might even be feeling the pain of losing you.
And once the rebound relationship is over? Your ex is going to think about and miss you.
He'll remember that what he had with you was solid and real - not at all like the fling he just had that lasted all of a month's time.
He'll be reminded of the good times you shared, and the great things you did...
and he'll want you again.
This mindset is a huge factor in getting your ex back - being there for him when he's vulnerable and thinking back to the fact that he still loves you.
If you're still in love with your boyfriend, ask yourself an honest question: does he still love you? If so, it won't matter that he began dating someone else.
Give him his space, and the time to realize who he truly wants.
And in the mean time, concentrate on staying strong, being active, and keeping yourself on the right track.
Wallowing in misery and hopelessness isn't the way to get your exboyfriend back.
When he does make that phone call or come knocking on your door, you want to be the girl he fell in love with - not the girl who fell apart.
Rebound relationships are bound to happen, and in fact sometimes even increase the chances of you getting back together with your boyfriend.
Why? Because by jumping straight into another relationship, your ex hasn't had the chance to reconcile your existing relationship.
He dumped you, and rather than deal with his feelings regarding the break up...
immediately replaced you with some new girl.
Now this might not make you feel better, at least right now.
But console yourself with the knowledge that most rebound relationships don't last very long.
A few weeks from now, at most, your ex's little fling will be over.
And he'll be standing there alone, emotionally spent, looking for something familiar to make him feel better.
That's where you come in.
When a guy breaks up with you, it's not always permanent.
Most of the time he's just looking for an escape, or some time off.
In the interim, if he happens to find somebody else, it doesn't mean he doesn't still love you.
It could easily mean he's distracted by something outside of your relationship - someone else.
This new girlfriend makes him feel good about himself at a time when he's just ended your relationship, and might even be feeling the pain of losing you.
And once the rebound relationship is over? Your ex is going to think about and miss you.
He'll remember that what he had with you was solid and real - not at all like the fling he just had that lasted all of a month's time.
He'll be reminded of the good times you shared, and the great things you did...
and he'll want you again.
This mindset is a huge factor in getting your ex back - being there for him when he's vulnerable and thinking back to the fact that he still loves you.
If you're still in love with your boyfriend, ask yourself an honest question: does he still love you? If so, it won't matter that he began dating someone else.
Give him his space, and the time to realize who he truly wants.
And in the mean time, concentrate on staying strong, being active, and keeping yourself on the right track.
Wallowing in misery and hopelessness isn't the way to get your exboyfriend back.
When he does make that phone call or come knocking on your door, you want to be the girl he fell in love with - not the girl who fell apart.
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