Firstly, You have to make sure that your ex boyfriend is just as committed to fixing the problem as you are.
You don't want to get caught up trying to fix something that will only fall apart soon after.
This will only work if you BOTH are willing to put in some type of effort.
Furthermore, you'll need to pinpoint the problems that caused the separation.
Make sure that you think long and hard when you do this, you do not want to leave anything out.
You may think that these problems are the reasons that your ex boyfriend may have had for leaving you, but the problems are only the surface issue.
You will need to dig deeper to uncover the reasons those problems came about in the first place.
Once you have a good idea of the core issues your past relationship had you can share your ideas with your ex boyfriend.
When you share your ideas with your ex it is important to express your natural feelings as well as listen to his ideas.
It may be tough to relive all the problems of the past but once you do you can create a solid plan of action to fix the problems you two have faced in the past and prevent them from re-occurring.
From here you can communicate with your ex more often than you have been lately, try to reform the relationship by spending time together.
You don't want to come on too strong so give him time to respond to you.
Remember to keep it together if things don't go your way because if you let him see you have no self control you will ruin your chances completely.
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