Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend? - I Do Not Enjoy His Lovemaking Anymore
The most important element in your psychological environment is the people you interact with intimately, in this case your boyfriend.
Your boyfriend or maybe girlfriends to a large extent shape the way you look at life, feel and your attitudes.
Your interaction with your boyfriend is a process we can call brain modification.
If you are not satisfied with the way your boyfriend is modifying your brain, break up with him.
I am sure you started the relationship with your boyfriend by accident.
You must have met him through other friends or because we are in the same environment or we work together or for some other accidental reasons.
Did I say you should break up with your boyfriend? Do you want the hard facts if you should break up with your boyfriend? Here we go.
How do you go about choosing a boyfriend that will be a better, loving and more refreshing as a friend? Here are some questions you should ask yourself in evaluating and choosing a boyfriend! Is your boyfriend futuristic? Does he speak often of the future? Your boyfriend must be a person who look ahead, who have dreams and want to make life better.
Stay away from a boyfriend who delights in speaking about how bad life is and has been.
Break up with a boyfriend who thinks life is a prison and looks forward to more years in jail.
Is your boyfriend share-oriented? Your boyfriend may be someone who want to get something from you, not give something or help you accomplish something.
To improve your lot in life, keep a boyfriend who is interested in helping you, not because he expects something in return but because he sincerely wants to help you.
Sharing means exchanging ideas and teaching new ways of doing things.
Is your boyfriend ambitious? One quality of a good boyfriend is that he has a strong goal orientation.
He wants to do something - make more money, complete his studies in flying colors, move up in the organization, etc.
Associate with ambitious people and your ambitions will be strengthened.
Is your boyfriend a complainer? Keep a boyfriend who see the good, not the bad, in life's situations.
Avoid a boyfriend that constantly complains about the bad economy, the lousy boss, the bad work environment, and so on otherwise he will poison your brain, sour your attitudes and endanger your health.
If your boyfriend scores high in the above criteria, do not break up with him.
It will be easy to teach him new ways to spice up the bedroom.
If your boyfriend does not meet the above, you can do the needful.
I counsel you today, be careful of the one you keep as a boyfriend and the relationship you maintain.
Take out time to assess your boyfriend; whether he has been a blessing to you or otherwise, then make the right decision.