Life can really be cruel sometimes - your break up has left you so devastated that you have no interest in anything or anyone at all.
As if this isn't enough, you have been dealt a second blow - your ex is now dating someone new already - so soon after the break up.
Now you are really convinced - you will never win your ex back - it's impossible.
I beg to differ - it IS possible to win your ex back - yes, even if your ex is dating someone new.
The trick though, is to do it in such a way that your ex has no option BUT to want to be back with you.
Now you are probably wondering what it is that you have to do to accomplish this.
Well, right now you must do absolutely nothing.
Just leave your ex alone and don't make any contact with him/her whatsoever.
However, should you bump into your ex and his/her new partner, be gracious and simply greet them both without showing any adverse emotions.
Remember, the other person is not to blame for the way you feel, so it would be totally unfair to show animosity towards him/her.
As this is probably just a rebound relationship, the best thing to do is just go with the flow - don't do anything to try and break them apart such as bad-mouthing them to your friends or being unfriendly towards them when you see them.
In time you ex will realize that the other person is really not the kind of person that he/she wants to be with, and this other person is definitely not you.
As soon as your ex is over the trauma of the break up and the heartache that it brought, he/she will start thinking more and more about you.
Your ex will start seeing less and less of this other person and the relationship will all but fade away.
The break up was natural, and this will be your opportunity to take action and win your ex back.