There are always some ups and downs in all relationships.
Sometimes the downs are severe enough for you to be away from each other for a few days.
However, this should not be considered as the end of a relationship as that would mean you are concluding things without looking at all the aspects of the event.
Having a bad fight is alright but the fight should also be allowed to pass along with time.
In case you are stuck in a similar situation and are puzzled about how to get your ex girlfriend back you must use the following tactics.
The very first thing to remember is to be strong.
It means you must refrain from crying or trying to get sympathy from people and be as you were when your relationship was fine.
Do not lock yourself in a room or sulk inside the house.
Have a calm and patient head and carry on with your day to day activities just like before.
While you are doing this you must remember not to contact your ex girlfriend.
You must respect her space and allow her to spend some time with herself.
This is the only way of cooling down for both of you.
After you think that you have spent enough time away from each other you can slowly start finding about her whereabouts and make a soft approach.
You may now want to drop in a surprise call or may be a short email asking her out.
Her reaction will tell you how things are, and if she agrees you can be rest assured that you are one step closer to succeeding in getting your ex girlfriend back.
After this step, it is up to your mutual understanding which will decide the following course of action.