Friends Zone
One of the cruelest and most terrifying things men can hear is: "Let's just be friends.
" If that's what the girl told you, you are almost out of the race.
It's usually a point of no-return and the best advice to get out of it is never to get in at all.
Getting In The Friends Zone A girl will say that in one of the following situations: 1- She doesn't find you attractive.
2- She knows she can do whatever she wants with you.
Number 1 is quite straight forward.
Maybe you are just not her type: she doesn't like how you look or how you dress, you are not interesting, not fun, etc.
It can happen.
You are not going to be attractive to every girl you meet.
It's part of the game and the wise choice is to move on.
Number 2 is especially problematic.
If you are too ass-kissing, too nice and too accommodating you have big chances of falling in the Friend Zone.
She'll know she can have you just by raising a finger.
It's the case when you are trying everything to impress her, following her every step and dedicating all your efforts just for her.
While this may make you look special and romantic, most girls will feel that they can do whatever they want with you.
They will be in command of the relationship and will know they can have you any time they wish.
They know you'll wait for them and keep trying to get them.
Avoiding The Friends Zone The best advice for avoiding the Friends Zone is not to make her feel you are dead for her.
You have to be the one who is in control, not her.
Manage your times, don't always say "yes" and be a challenge.
It's OK if you want to have romantic dates and show interest.
But don't act as a boyfriend just yet.
Instead, tease her a bit, go out with other girls, make her be a bit jealous and, above all, be unpredictable.
Don't give her the chance to feel she can do whatever she wants with you.
Even if it hurts you, try hard and try your best.
The Exception Sometimes you'll fall in the Friends Zone no matter how much you try.
Don't get too frustrated about it: move on, but move on wisely.
A real man won't stop calling, talking and meeting with her.
But be cool: date other girls, talk about your love problems and make it clear she can't do what she wants with you anymore.
Don't be the friend who is there for her to cry with, to talk when she is bored, etc.
Be the cool friend instead.
Be the one who she could go out and have a lot of fun with.
Resist the temptation and let go those thoughts of sleeping together.
As long as you can cope with it, you got a winner.
There's no better value-riser as having beautiful women friends to go out with.
" If that's what the girl told you, you are almost out of the race.
It's usually a point of no-return and the best advice to get out of it is never to get in at all.
Getting In The Friends Zone A girl will say that in one of the following situations: 1- She doesn't find you attractive.
2- She knows she can do whatever she wants with you.
Number 1 is quite straight forward.
Maybe you are just not her type: she doesn't like how you look or how you dress, you are not interesting, not fun, etc.
It can happen.
You are not going to be attractive to every girl you meet.
It's part of the game and the wise choice is to move on.
Number 2 is especially problematic.
If you are too ass-kissing, too nice and too accommodating you have big chances of falling in the Friend Zone.
She'll know she can have you just by raising a finger.
It's the case when you are trying everything to impress her, following her every step and dedicating all your efforts just for her.
While this may make you look special and romantic, most girls will feel that they can do whatever they want with you.
They will be in command of the relationship and will know they can have you any time they wish.
They know you'll wait for them and keep trying to get them.
Avoiding The Friends Zone The best advice for avoiding the Friends Zone is not to make her feel you are dead for her.
You have to be the one who is in control, not her.
Manage your times, don't always say "yes" and be a challenge.
It's OK if you want to have romantic dates and show interest.
But don't act as a boyfriend just yet.
Instead, tease her a bit, go out with other girls, make her be a bit jealous and, above all, be unpredictable.
Don't give her the chance to feel she can do whatever she wants with you.
Even if it hurts you, try hard and try your best.
The Exception Sometimes you'll fall in the Friends Zone no matter how much you try.
Don't get too frustrated about it: move on, but move on wisely.
A real man won't stop calling, talking and meeting with her.
But be cool: date other girls, talk about your love problems and make it clear she can't do what she wants with you anymore.
Don't be the friend who is there for her to cry with, to talk when she is bored, etc.
Be the cool friend instead.
Be the one who she could go out and have a lot of fun with.
Resist the temptation and let go those thoughts of sleeping together.
As long as you can cope with it, you got a winner.
There's no better value-riser as having beautiful women friends to go out with.
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