Depending on your situation, you might be quick to think that getting back your ex girlfriend is not going to be easy. This is what most men think when they first have to face the situation and try to win back their ex girlfriend. However, it does NOT have to be so hard, at least not in the way that you think it is.

Your ex girlfriend more than likely still shares a lot of the same feelings that you do, and as long as you can tap into them and figure out how to connect with her, then getting her back can actually be kind of easy.

Here are some tips on how to get back your girlfriend that can help you to get her back quick:

1. Deal with REALITY and not FANTASY.

What I mean is, you have to stop referring to her and thinking about her like she is still your girlfriend. It might not be the best feeling in the world, but dealing with the truth and admitting that you and her have broken up is a necessary step if you are going to get her back quickly.

2. Make her see that you are a different man.

Now, you know that you cannot make a million changes overnight and really, you do not have to. Just making a couple of small changes here and there can give the impression that you are a changed man and that may be all that she needs to see in order to take you back.

3. Don't be foolish and think you don't need strategy.

Every play on the football field needs a strategy and a plan, and so does getting back your ex-girlfriend. When you allow yourself to be OPEN to the idea of getting together a plan to get your girlfriend back, then you are moving that much closer to getting her back and getting her back for GOOD!