Have you just broken up with your boyfriend? You can get so confused at a time like that and wonder if you really want to get your ex boyfriend back it is not good to chase after him.
All that will just push him farther away and make it harder to work thing out and get together again.
You are alone and think about calling him, but remember that is not going to help you get back with him.
You need time to think and decide what you really want.
Trying to call, text or email him will only make it more difficult to work things out.
Give him time to work things out for himself and he will probably find he wants to talk to you.
If you know you will see him someplace look your very best.
He probably liked a certain dress or jeans and shirt so show him the girl he fell for in the first place.
If you are with some friends stay with them and let him come to you.
If he really cared about you he is as lonely for you as you are for him.
friends, go out, and have a good time.
You can have a good time and give yourself time to Get yourself back to a positive attitude and get rid of the negative things you feel.
Call some think about what you really want to do like how to get your ex boyfriend back.
Something you can do while you are alone and hurting if write a letter telling him about all the times he hurt you and made you unhappy.
Really put your heart in this letter and let him know all the times he hurt you.
After you finished the letter burn it.
Do not send the letter just set it on fire and watch it burn the bad feelings you had.
I know it doesn't sound like much, but you will be surprised how much it will help you.
When you have burned the letter get rid of all your negative feelings.
Let them go with the fire and start healing and get yourself back together and if you still want him back you can get a better feeling when you talk to him, but wait, don't go after in the wrong way.
You can set up a time to talk with him and work things out.
When you do meet with him look your best, keep the conversation calm, and remember what you are here for.
You want to talk about the good times you shared together and about getting back with him.
Listen to him and really hear what he is saying.
Let him talk and find out what some of the problems were.
Don't let him make all the decisions about what things will be like, but don't have everything your way either.
When you talk to him find out what were some of the things he liked and some of the things that bothered him.
You don't have to give in to everything but some things he liked might be the way you cooked or how you look when you went out.
Sometimes in a relationship you get to routine and let things go that you did when your relationship was new and exciting.
You can have a better life together If you both try and work on making each other happy.
If your friends call and invite you out, go with them.
If your boyfriend sees you out having a good time and looking so good he will see you as being desirable and wonder why he is not with you right now.