Broken hearts are enamored with the idea of an ex racing back to a relationship in a fit of jealousy.
There are countless ways to spark a jealous flame but before choosing a method to stir up a big pot of jealousy you should decide if it's the best course of action.
Jealousy is a powerful emotion capable of producing both positive and negative outcomes.
When To Use Jealousy Jealousy is most effective when you know your ex is still fond of you.
If your ex is receptive to your presence and conversation, feelings for you may persist.
Those feelings, as slight as they may be, can be manipulated in your favor.
When Jealousy Isn't A Good Idea If you sense anger or resentment, trying to make your ex jealous may push them further away.
You can't make someone jealous if they don't care about what's at stake.
In this case, a more subtle approach would be needed.
It's A Dangerous Game To Play The benefits are obvious.
You're going to know right away if your ex still cares and is jealous enough to want you back.
Making someone jealous also has the potential to close the door forever.
Your attempt to make them jealous may trigger thoughts and emotions confirming their instincts to end your relationship.
If you go on a date to make your ex jealous, they may realize that they just don't care anymore.
Not only have you failed to make your ex jealous, you've now given them concrete evidence that it's time to move on.
Using the jealousy card can be an all or nothing game.
If you aren't a gambler or risk taker you should choose a less confrontational path to reconciliation.
If your ex continues to harbor feelings and has thoughts of getting back together the bitter taste of jealousy could be enough to send them back to your embrace.