You've been devastated by the fact that the one person you love most has chosen to leave you.
Your mind is filled with all sorts of depressing thoughts after the break up which is a natural thing.
But you cannot allow your spirit to break and your resolve to get your ex back to waiver; therefore, pull yourself together and here's a plan that will work out.
Instead of consulting people unrelated to your relationship for advice to get back together with your ex, you have to muster up all your courage and face realities.
The only way you will get your ex partner back into your life is by conducting a thorough investigation about the actual causes of the break up.
Did your ex call the break up after having a serious confrontation with you? If so, then you have to rectify the source that fueled that argument and of course, you have to give some time to your ex to waive off the emotional hype.
Most probably it was you who instigated the argument, either directly or indirectly.
It could be something that you said or perhaps a habit of yours that your ex didn't like.
It doesn't always have to be something groundbreaking to cause a break up in fact, most of the times a small thing causes haywire between two partners.
Try to uproot that problem and your chances of getting your ex back will go sky high.
But you also have to do some firefighting to convince your ex that you regret what happened.
It's a wise thing to say sorry on your mistakes to your ex but don't overdo things and keep your conversation short and precise.
Your apology will provide your ex with a different perspective about the whole matter.
The anger will fade away in a few days and you will notice that your ex is hinting on stepping close to you once again.
Let's not forget that there is a serious bond of love between the two of you and it only needed to resurface again.
Just try out this plan and you'll get your ex back again.