How Derek Got His Ex Back - And Made the Relationship Flourish
Derek and Karen have an incredibly loving relationship and are preparing to buy a house together in the Fall.
Things weren't always like this though.
Not long ago there were deep underlying problems in what they thought was the perfect relationship.
Not long ago, a lack of communication had developed and Karen became seemingly distant.
She was slow to return calls or text back when Derek would contact her.
When they were together it didn't seem like she was 100% there - as if her mind was somewhere else.
Derek was frustrated.
And that frustration grew and joined forces with a nasty little feeling called resentment.
"I don't deserve to be treated like this" he assured himself.
But he didn't know what to do! A short time later, Karen broke things off.
She said she needed space, and she just wasn't sure what she wanted for her life.
Derek was devastated.
He couldn't believe it was happening.
The signs were there but he failed to see them.
He was worried he'd lost the one he loved forever.
Until he found the answer.
After making what seemed like every mistake one could possibly make after a break-up, he finally stumbled upon the one thing that would save his relationship.
Never did he think the answer could be so simple.
After calling and texting her constantly, driving by her house, checking her Facebook for new friends, leaving her embarrassing messages, and begging her to take him back...
It seemed like he had completely ruined any existing chance of getting Karen back.
Until one day, while very close to giving up, he discovered the one simple technique that changed everything.
A series of methods designed to demonstrate value and create a frame in your lover's mind that they are actively seeking YOU back as opposed to the other way around.
It started with not doing any of the things he'd been doing like: 1.
Pestering Karen everyday with etxt messages and voicemails.
2.
Stalking her on the Internet 3.
Thinking solely about Karen everyday.
These are known as deal-breakers unless you know the techniques to smooth them over.
It begins with the "zero contact" rule and a focus on YOU, your feelings and your overall well-being: 1.
Think about yourself - pamper yourself.
Stop thinking of your ex for once.
2.
Stop stalking and pestering your ex.
In this case, Derek should give Karen space.
3.
Do not act desperate and clingy, so keep your emotions in check always.
Then it moves into a simple method for getting your ex to return your calls and texts by leaving a curiosity-driven message, as opposed to the desperate, needy-sounding ones most people leave in situations like this.
Things weren't always like this though.
Not long ago there were deep underlying problems in what they thought was the perfect relationship.
Not long ago, a lack of communication had developed and Karen became seemingly distant.
She was slow to return calls or text back when Derek would contact her.
When they were together it didn't seem like she was 100% there - as if her mind was somewhere else.
Derek was frustrated.
And that frustration grew and joined forces with a nasty little feeling called resentment.
"I don't deserve to be treated like this" he assured himself.
But he didn't know what to do! A short time later, Karen broke things off.
She said she needed space, and she just wasn't sure what she wanted for her life.
Derek was devastated.
He couldn't believe it was happening.
The signs were there but he failed to see them.
He was worried he'd lost the one he loved forever.
Until he found the answer.
After making what seemed like every mistake one could possibly make after a break-up, he finally stumbled upon the one thing that would save his relationship.
Never did he think the answer could be so simple.
After calling and texting her constantly, driving by her house, checking her Facebook for new friends, leaving her embarrassing messages, and begging her to take him back...
It seemed like he had completely ruined any existing chance of getting Karen back.
Until one day, while very close to giving up, he discovered the one simple technique that changed everything.
A series of methods designed to demonstrate value and create a frame in your lover's mind that they are actively seeking YOU back as opposed to the other way around.
It started with not doing any of the things he'd been doing like: 1.
Pestering Karen everyday with etxt messages and voicemails.
2.
Stalking her on the Internet 3.
Thinking solely about Karen everyday.
These are known as deal-breakers unless you know the techniques to smooth them over.
It begins with the "zero contact" rule and a focus on YOU, your feelings and your overall well-being: 1.
Think about yourself - pamper yourself.
Stop thinking of your ex for once.
2.
Stop stalking and pestering your ex.
In this case, Derek should give Karen space.
3.
Do not act desperate and clingy, so keep your emotions in check always.
Then it moves into a simple method for getting your ex to return your calls and texts by leaving a curiosity-driven message, as opposed to the desperate, needy-sounding ones most people leave in situations like this.
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