If you are experiencing a breakup and want your ex boyfriend back, you must understand male/female psychology in order to know how to push your boyfriend's emotional hot buttons so that you can trigger feelings of attraction for you because you are desirable.
This is nothing to do with manipulating your ex.
You can spend days trying to get his attention but men respond differently than women do so trying to score points with him in order to make him want a relationship with you will not work if you are doing it incorrectly.
It's shocking to know how many women continue to go around the mountain in their desire to win their man back only to fail miserably.
You don't have to be a statistic.
Whenever you "feel" the need to do something to move towards your boyfriend, these feelings are a way to indicate to you that what you do on a whim will not work.
You must wait until those intense feelings pass before you can think rationally.
When you think rationally, it will help you to follow a plan.
Along with the pain of your breakup, have you been dealing with negative patterns of thinking like feelings of being unloved, unwanted, and never successful in your relationships? Rationally, you know that if you push towards your boyfriend with this sort of energy, it will make him want to pull away.
You need to create an intense level of attraction within him so that he will become curious.
This is the first step and it starts will elevating your value.
When you are able to elevate your value, you'll get inside his mind.