Bad Relationship - I Want My Marriage Back - 7 Easy Steps!
In "Bad Relationship - I Want My Marriage Back" I'll be covering the steps you need to take to get the tone of your break up changing from "I don't want you anymore" to "I want you back".
You'll be doing this by using a well known psychological trigger that works on almost everyone.
The fact of that trigger is "people want what they can't have".
This is common knowledge, but most people really don't think about how to use it to work for them, not against them.
OK, so you've given yourself a few days to get your emotions a little bit more under control because you blew it before.
You went crazy on your partner and now you need to backtrack a bit.
You need to wait until you can be calm, cool, and rational before taking this next step.
This is what you need to do: 1.
Write a short note - handwritten is best.
2.
Let them know you are OK with the break up now.
3.
Tell them that you agree with the decision.
4.
IF you did something "bad" that contributed to the break up (like an affair?), briefly apologize, but don't get profuse.
Keep it short and simple, but mean it.
5.
Tell them something really exciting happened in your life and you'd like to tell them about it later on (but don't say what that something is).
6.
Let them know that you want to give them time to themselves for now.
7.
And, finally, close by saying that maybe at some point later on you can still be friends.
By using this short, concise list of things to write (this will also work on the phone, however, be VERY sure that you keep it to this list alone and keep it short! Don't ramble and don't sound desperate!) you should be able to start turning the tone of your broken relationship around.
There are more steps that you have to do after this to keep the momentum turning in your favor, however, this initial list is crucial to start repairing your relationship.
You'll be doing this by using a well known psychological trigger that works on almost everyone.
The fact of that trigger is "people want what they can't have".
This is common knowledge, but most people really don't think about how to use it to work for them, not against them.
OK, so you've given yourself a few days to get your emotions a little bit more under control because you blew it before.
You went crazy on your partner and now you need to backtrack a bit.
You need to wait until you can be calm, cool, and rational before taking this next step.
This is what you need to do: 1.
Write a short note - handwritten is best.
2.
Let them know you are OK with the break up now.
3.
Tell them that you agree with the decision.
4.
IF you did something "bad" that contributed to the break up (like an affair?), briefly apologize, but don't get profuse.
Keep it short and simple, but mean it.
5.
Tell them something really exciting happened in your life and you'd like to tell them about it later on (but don't say what that something is).
6.
Let them know that you want to give them time to themselves for now.
7.
And, finally, close by saying that maybe at some point later on you can still be friends.
By using this short, concise list of things to write (this will also work on the phone, however, be VERY sure that you keep it to this list alone and keep it short! Don't ramble and don't sound desperate!) you should be able to start turning the tone of your broken relationship around.
There are more steps that you have to do after this to keep the momentum turning in your favor, however, this initial list is crucial to start repairing your relationship.
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