In every relationship, there is always the best of times and the worst of times.
Misunderstanding is one of the common causes of every relationship breakup.
So, below are some of the clues you must know if you want to get your ex boyfriend back.
When do men get the wrong message and call it a day? Men call it quits for a reason that seems counter intuitive.
In as much as they love humble and submissive ladies, but there are times you need to stand up for yourself.
Trying to please him always is counter intuitive.
Trying to provide all that he needs will make you look like a piece of trash in his eyes.
Be sure you are confident of yourself, respect who you are and do not sell yourself to him in the name of love.
Do not appear dominant either, but be sure to be respectable as this is a sure way of getting your ex boyfriend back into your arms.
Talking about your ex in your boyfriend's presence is another thing that will chase them away.
Men take dating as a competition and are continually thinking of other men who might be of a stumbling block to their own efforts, by so doing they compare themselves with your ex.
This does not mean you should say nothing at all.
Looking and thinking down memory lane is essential, in that it helps you model your recent relationship to be exactly or almost the same with the one you had in the past.
Calling to mind your first date in school is very important, but telling your date that he sings very well, knows how to cuddle, did not keep late nights etc is a little bit too much.
Always talking about your ex boyfriend makes your date feel inferior or brings out the idea that you miss him and still have feelings for him else you will give your date no other option than to make unnecessary conclusions in his head.
A little bit of this and a little bit of that is very important.
You should be feminine, conservative and someone who is not cheap and intimidating.
Men are naturally against the idea of having their feelings challenged in one way or the other.
Therefore pressurizing him to define his role, analyze who he is and how he feels, usually turns thereof.
He will definitely hit the road if he finds out that he has been proven wrong.
Trying to change him is another factor that can send him packing.
Men tend to believe that you appreciate and love them for who they are.
Trying to change them brings out the idea that they have a very serious problem.
Even when he has no problem, trying to change him will challenge his feelings and robe him of who he is.
Let sleeping dogs lie.
If you want something else, find someone else that has it.
If you really want to get your ex boyfriend back into your life, follow these steps above, because they are essential if you want to avoid chasing him away.
The earlier you remember no one is perfect, the better for you.