Have you and your girlfriend just broken up? You might not even exactly know why it happened, it always seemed true love and you always thought you two are meant to be.
You were happy, and now you are just devastated.
You would give anything just to be back together again.
Can I tell you a little story? What I said above was exactly how I felt when I broke up with my girlfriend about a year ago.
We were happy...
at least I thought so, but something suddenly changed.
She didn't want to spend as much time with me anymore and she seemed really distant whenever we were together.
Then one day, she said those famous words to me...
"I think we need to talk.
" Yep, you guessed right, what followed was a long talk about our relationship and that she thinks we should have a break.
I was completely devastated.
Of course I knew something wasn't quite right anymore, but I never thought she would actually break up with me.
I didn't want to break up with her, I still loved here.
What followed was that I made a complete fool of myself.
I thought I need to do anything in my power to get her back.
I phoned her, trying to talk everything over.
I told her how much I still loved her and reminded her of how much fun we had together.
I tried to contact her mum and dad to see if they could maybe talk some sense into her.
All this made the situation even worse.
You see, most girls who break up with their boyfriend are unsure afterwards whether they made the right decision.
What I did, and most guys make the same mistake, was to contact her during this time.
A woman needs this time to reflect on the relationship and she needs time to actually miss you.
If you contact her constantly she doesn't have any chance to miss you and after a while she is sure that she did make the right decision.
After all, she doesn't even miss you now that you two aren't together anymore.