Do you want to try to change a man who has some potential into the man of your dreams? Have you heard it's impossible to change a man, but you still want to give it a try? Do you really love him, but if you could change this man a bit, he'd be perfect? Perhaps you once dated a guy who always treated you with kindness and generosity, but he was quiet and meek...
too meek.
So you dumped him and found a guy who was really strong and determined, but he was a little cold to you.
So you met up with a guy who sizzled and was always all over you, but he turned out to be all over every other woman as well.
So what's a girl to do? It seems that every guy comes with a quality on one hand and an unacceptable flaw on the other.
Well, you find a way to change that man into the man you really want.
Here's how.
His Reception Know going in that men have a huge aversion to any woman coming in a changing anything about them.
This is why you have to be subtle, be patient and be judicious.
Ideally, you want to pick a guy who has the most qualities to begin with.
And the ultimate in qualities is that general overall sense of feeling good just being with him.
You can't fake or change that aspect, so ensure you're starting with this as a solid basis to then make a few alterations on your man.
City Slicker to Country Bumpkin I once knew a woman who was desperate to have a man in her life.
So desperate, she settled on the first guy to come along.
He had a dull sense of humor, dressed like a pauper and was addicted to his job.
She was a wild and free spirited girl who loved the outdoors, but he was the type who blemished in the sun and hated to break a sweat.
She immediately took to overhauling his wardrobe and, within two weeks of knowing him, was insisting he get a haircut.
Then she went to work convincing him that going out was more interesting than working all the time.
The point here? Don't take your transformation too far.
If you try to change a guy around from top to bottom, you're heading for a disaster.
It Was All His Idea When I first met my husband, his idea of budgeting was taking it one week at a time.
Money was to be spent as it arrived, but it didn't take long before he found himself broke.
Instead of criticizing him and bossing him around, I made gentle and subtle suggestions.
This was usually done within the context of casual conversation.
Sometimes I would even mention a neat budgeting trick I'd heard on the radio or a money saving tip a friend of mine used.
Without even realizing what had happened, the following week he was putting into action the trick or tip I'd mentioned...
and, he thought he'd come up with such a good idea.
Change a man into your perfect vision on slow and delicate step at a time.