Sometimes is takes only a simple negative comment from your friend and now you are not willing to give that date a chance. As you search for singles in the databases of these dating sites or review they matches that the dating site provides to you, you need to determine first whether you want to contact that match based on their profile and photo, dont let you friends know each and every profile that you are reviewing, once you have maybe narrowed it down to several you might then ask your friend to give you some constructive opinions and ideas of the potential matches that you have.

The whole online dating process can be exciting, and a heart break when things dont work out like you had hoped, thats why it is so important that you review your potential matches and make the decision to communicate with that match based on your needs and wants, not your friends!

Always consider the source What has their advice been like in the past? Sincere or controlling?

Before you consider a friends opinion about your date, think back to what kind of support and advice that they have given you in the past, have they been supportive and sincere? Or are they controlling? And does their advice always seem to be sincere or are they trying to hold you back, or maybe even stealing your date. If they are always leaving you feeling fearful, guilty then you better not discuss anything about dating with them, dont give them a chance to fill your head full of negative thoughts.

Most importantly you need to trust your own feelings and instincts.

Dont forget, this whole dating process comes down to you, not your friends. It is important to surround yourself with friends that have always looked out for you in the past and would give you caring, accurate feedback on their feeling of your matches when you are reviewing them. Stay true to yourself, if you have a bad gut feeling dont proceed with communicating or going out on a date with that person even if your friends say they would be a good match. Good Luck and Happy Online Dating!