Men - What Do They Really Want?
I've asked my male clients this question.
I've gotten some great answers, which truthfully, surprised me at times.
From what I've learned listening to men, one of the biggest things men want is a woman who is confident and comfortable with herself.
When a woman is confident and comfortable in her own skin, she is able to give her attention to the man she is with, rather than worrying constantly about herself.
Men want to be with a woman who knows how to listen and be present with them, and isn't silently comparing them to an internal agenda she might have.
If a woman knows how to relax, be herself, and have a good time with a man, he will adore her for it.
Men really do want to make women happy.
If they think they're succeeding in that endeavor and being appreciated for their efforts, they'll try that much harder to make the woman happy and feel very drawn to be around her all the more.
Men want women who are interested in them and their lives.
If a woman talks incessantly about how miserable her ex was or about all the things that are going wrong in her life, a man is going to feel like no matter what he does, he's going to have a difficult time making her happy.
Men love feeling connected to a woman.
In today's world, we have so few times to actually make real connections with people, that when we do, it can be very powerful.
All making a real connection takes is for a woman to be able to listen, pay attention to the man she's with, and be interested.
If she can also enjoy herself in the process, be lighthearted and having a good time, men will think she's fabulous.
Of course, men like women who look nice, because men are very visual creatures.
But it's more about a woman looking like she's put a little bit of effort into looking nice for the man she's with, rather than any huge gestures.
Most men don't particularly need or want an extremely glamorous woman.
They just want someone who's attractive and knows how to take care of herself.
Men don't require a lot from women in order for them to be happy, because much of their masculine happiness comes from making the woman in their life happy.
If a man knows he's doing that, and that the woman appreciates it, that's what a man really wants.
I've gotten some great answers, which truthfully, surprised me at times.
From what I've learned listening to men, one of the biggest things men want is a woman who is confident and comfortable with herself.
When a woman is confident and comfortable in her own skin, she is able to give her attention to the man she is with, rather than worrying constantly about herself.
Men want to be with a woman who knows how to listen and be present with them, and isn't silently comparing them to an internal agenda she might have.
If a woman knows how to relax, be herself, and have a good time with a man, he will adore her for it.
Men really do want to make women happy.
If they think they're succeeding in that endeavor and being appreciated for their efforts, they'll try that much harder to make the woman happy and feel very drawn to be around her all the more.
Men want women who are interested in them and their lives.
If a woman talks incessantly about how miserable her ex was or about all the things that are going wrong in her life, a man is going to feel like no matter what he does, he's going to have a difficult time making her happy.
Men love feeling connected to a woman.
In today's world, we have so few times to actually make real connections with people, that when we do, it can be very powerful.
All making a real connection takes is for a woman to be able to listen, pay attention to the man she's with, and be interested.
If she can also enjoy herself in the process, be lighthearted and having a good time, men will think she's fabulous.
Of course, men like women who look nice, because men are very visual creatures.
But it's more about a woman looking like she's put a little bit of effort into looking nice for the man she's with, rather than any huge gestures.
Most men don't particularly need or want an extremely glamorous woman.
They just want someone who's attractive and knows how to take care of herself.
Men don't require a lot from women in order for them to be happy, because much of their masculine happiness comes from making the woman in their life happy.
If a man knows he's doing that, and that the woman appreciates it, that's what a man really wants.
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