A Simple Guide to Saving Your Marriage and Avoid the Dreaded Word Call Divorce
This article can serve as a guide to saving your marriage.
Its strange but separation from marriage in the old days was virtually unheard of.
People will always try to find a way to work things out if a relationship does not work out as it was supposed to.
But in this generation, we seem to take the word separation too easy.
And many hearts have been tear apart because of this.
Read this article, spare a moment, and think before you even have thoughts of breaking up a marriage, whether you have exhausted all alternatives.
Give Each Other Space To Think Sometimes we all need some alone time together.
You may think that being together will be the only way to resolve issues but this may not apply to everyone.
Think about this.
If a couple are quarreling and are unable to resolve anything, any word that comes out of each other's mouth will sound irritating.
And if this is the case, how can anything be dealt with peacefully.
So give each other space to think it through alone.
When alone, you can become calm and when you start to think through, you may get a clearer view of what had happen and what can be done to resolve the situation.
Stay Away From Each Other For A While There is always this saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder".
This is very true.
When you are married, you get to face each other everyday and being humans, we start to take things for granted.
And the reason, because you know that he or she will always be there.
But remember the courtship days when you start to miss each other the moment we go to our own separate homes? Get this feeling back.
Go and do your own things.
Force the both of you to go do your own separate things and see if you can still find the feeling of longing for each other.
Give each other time.
For guys, you may think that wanting to talk means there is a chance matters can be closed.
For girls, you may not even wish to listen to the guys explanation.
So the best way is to just separate for a while.
Calm down your feelings and think about the past, the present and the future.
Sort out everything and when both are good and ready, then start seeing each other to trash out the details.
Hope this article can be a guide to saving your marriage, provide a different alternative view towards surviving through the marriage.
Always remember that love takes time and if you can manage it well without taking the easy way out of marriage, then maybe, you can achieve a fairy tale ending of happily ever after.
Its strange but separation from marriage in the old days was virtually unheard of.
People will always try to find a way to work things out if a relationship does not work out as it was supposed to.
But in this generation, we seem to take the word separation too easy.
And many hearts have been tear apart because of this.
Read this article, spare a moment, and think before you even have thoughts of breaking up a marriage, whether you have exhausted all alternatives.
Give Each Other Space To Think Sometimes we all need some alone time together.
You may think that being together will be the only way to resolve issues but this may not apply to everyone.
Think about this.
If a couple are quarreling and are unable to resolve anything, any word that comes out of each other's mouth will sound irritating.
And if this is the case, how can anything be dealt with peacefully.
So give each other space to think it through alone.
When alone, you can become calm and when you start to think through, you may get a clearer view of what had happen and what can be done to resolve the situation.
Stay Away From Each Other For A While There is always this saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder".
This is very true.
When you are married, you get to face each other everyday and being humans, we start to take things for granted.
And the reason, because you know that he or she will always be there.
But remember the courtship days when you start to miss each other the moment we go to our own separate homes? Get this feeling back.
Go and do your own things.
Force the both of you to go do your own separate things and see if you can still find the feeling of longing for each other.
Give each other time.
For guys, you may think that wanting to talk means there is a chance matters can be closed.
For girls, you may not even wish to listen to the guys explanation.
So the best way is to just separate for a while.
Calm down your feelings and think about the past, the present and the future.
Sort out everything and when both are good and ready, then start seeing each other to trash out the details.
Hope this article can be a guide to saving your marriage, provide a different alternative view towards surviving through the marriage.
Always remember that love takes time and if you can manage it well without taking the easy way out of marriage, then maybe, you can achieve a fairy tale ending of happily ever after.
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