Contrary to what society might want to say about it, it's not only women who want to find the right person, feel loved, and settle down.
So if you have found the right guy for you and you need to know how to make him feel that you truly love him just know that there is a right and a wrong way for you to do it.
Don't be too affectionate Unlike women, men are predisposed to be more reserved about opening up and being affectionate.
It is different when you are alone or if you have been with him for some time.
But especially in the beginning, do not be overly affectionate because it might scare him off.
Instead of showering him with affection, make him feel that you truly love him by doing little special things to make his day better.
Send him a sweet message out of the blue that compliments him.
Or, buy him a small but personal gift that will show him that you are in tune with his interests.
Just don't go overboard; you want him to feel special not smothered.
Don't push him forward Let your guy be the one behind the wheel when it comes to how fast the relationship moves forward.
It may take him a bit longer than it takes you to realize that he is in love, so be patient.
The last thing that you want to do is make him feel that you are pressuring him into something that he isn't ready for.
So take your time and enjoy the natural progression of the relationship.
When you let him set the pace, not only are you not pushing him, but it will take some pressure off of you.
For instance, instead of worrying over whether or not to introduce him to your parents, you can just wait and do it once he introduces you to his.
Also, if you are wondering how often it is appropriate to call him, just do it as often as he calls you, or a bit less.
This way, although he is always making the first move, you are not far behind so that the relationship is equal.
Also, you will know that he is really into you.
Wait to say, "I love you" This goes along with letting him set the speed that the relationship develops.
You don't want to jump the gun and tell him that you love him too early on.
Not only will it make him feel obligated to give you an answer, but it also will make you miserable if that answer is not the one you want to hear.
Again, men take longer to feel comfortable opening up.
To say that you love someone is to admit that that person has a certain power over you, that you would feel lost without them, and that you are giving them your heart.
That is a huge deal for a guy who has been raised to avoid being weak and vulnerable.
You can make him feel that you truly love him without saying a word.
So just wait for him to tell you first, and you will both be much happier.