Men, see if you are on this list: • Do you just want to be dead to escape from your wife? Do you dread spending time with her? • Do you work a lot to avoid your wife? • Do you eat way too much to dull the pain? Is your body a wreck and is your health going down the drain? • Do you have a sarcastic, demanding, ungrateful wife? Is nothing you do good enough for her? Does she find fault with everything you do? • Are you not sure why you are unhappy? Shouldn't you just shut up and deal with whatever trouble your wife throws at you? • Do you want a better life for yourself? Deep down you know something is not right, you are just not sure what.
• Are you modeling bad behavior for your children? Do you think you need to stay married for your children? Does your wife verbally abuse you in front of your children? • Are you thinking of getting married and wondering if your girlfriend is going to be high maintenance or difficult? • Do you want to die young? Does the thought of growing old with her terrify you? • Do you because of religious or traditional or family reasons think you have to stay married? Are you worried what others will think? Are you afraid of divorce? • Do you think you owe your life to your wife? Do you take too seriously the wedding vows? • Do you think it is somehow noble to suffer? Do you feel like it is your duty or your obligation to spend your life in silent misery? It does not have to be that way.
You do not have to suffer.
You can leave your wife.
You can make a better life for yourself.
You can still have a good life.
You can rediscover your life and be a better father and a better person.
I suffered under verbal abuse from my wife until I finally discovered the knowledge and courage to leave.