Do your lips go a mile a minute when you're with friends, but they come to a sudden stop when a cute guy comes up? Does your brain go into neutral and you can't put a sentence together? Do you wish you could just find a way to get the ball rolling and then you might relax and enjoy a conversation with him? This happens to a lot more people than you might realize.
But there are a few things you can do to help yourself along.
Read on to see how talking to him isn't really all that hard.
Guys really enjoy talking about themselves.
They like to impress women and they want to have a fascinated audience.
So don't think so much of what you can say to him, but find ways you can get him to tell you about himself.
What better way than to ask him a few questions? If this is a complete stranger you're seeing for the very first time, you can use your surroundings to conjure up a question.
Avoid the old 'come here often?' and try to find a more suitable question that will have him opening up.
Things can be a little easier if you see him regularly and know a bit about him.
You want to avoid asking general questions and want to zone in on getting him to talk about himself.
Take whatever you know about him and formulate a question that will show him you're interested in learning about him.
Once the question is out there, the ball is in his court.
All you need to do is listen, attentively, and ask the occasional subsequent question.
As the conversation gets going you'll start to relax, probably because you'll come to realize he's just a guy after all and you can get on board and enjoy yourself.
Your basic goal should be to simply have fun with him and enjoy the experience.
Knowing you're interested in him will make him feel good, and his lengthy answers will make you feel more and more comfortable with him.
Talking to that cute guy isn't that complicated after all.