Many people find themselves in this situation, and I assume you're one of them, since you're reading this article. So you moved from your former residence, but you didn't actually want to. The reasons may vary (work, family, etc.), but one thing's certain: you find yourself in a different environment, with different people surrounding you and a brand new residence which you ought to call "home", but you can't really do so. Starting from scratch is hard, and so is sudden change. But intelligence is defined as being able to quickly adapt to new situations, and to exceed them. Therefore, try to pull yourself together and be... intelligent!

Firstly, let's take into consideration the reason of your moving to a different location. If it's a personal matter (such as a somewhat forced move in order to take care of a loved one, a break-up which added up to such a measure), coping with the situation may prove to be less difficult than a relocation owed to job requirements. Why? Because if it's personal, it's emotional, and all you have to do is take the time to clearly evaluate your situation, leaving your emotions aside. Firstly, ask yourself if it is permanent or temporary. If it's temporary, try to actually realize that it's just a matter of time until you return to your former residence, and you will be able to pick up from where you left. Also, try to make the best out of your current living situation. Change isn't so bad after all - it only depends on your perspective, given the fact that it's all relative. If the move is permanent, as difficult as it is, try to look on the bright side of the matter - you have the opportunity to reinvent yourself and to make the best out of change - redesign the place, add items that will make you feel "like home". Some personal and meaningful objects, such as pictures of your loved ones, might help.

Also, don't forget about the little things. They count a lot! Try to make yourself comfortable in your new house. In addition, try to make your first night spent there something to remember - gather some friends, watch a feel good movie, order food - whatever works. Also, don't isolate yourself. If you find yourself in a different city, try to make friends and socialize as much as you can. Be open and make the best out of the experience. In fact, everything happens with a reason.