Frustration? Are you dismayed with your dating life? Does it seem like the harder you try the more you fail? Well I have good news for you.
There is a solution to your problem.
There is encouragement for you.
When dating remember that dating is all about finding that right person in a sea of wrong ones.
Dating is like a hobby, the more time you invest in it the better you get.
Even when you fail in dating it is still a success.
There is a popular dating website out there called PlentyOfFish.
I highly recommend this site to my students.
The reason I bring it up in this article though is because of its name.
There is an old saying that there are "plenty of fish in the sea...
" this is usually heard as a consolation to someone who has just been dumped.
The concept here though is golden.
There are over 6 billion people on this planet.
That means there are approximately 3 billion people you might be interested in.
I think 3 billion qualifies as a lot in any ones estimation.
Now to some of you it may seem like you cannot find even one date, much less 3 billion.
Dating is a like a hobby, the more effort you put into it the better you will get.
There isn't a hobby in the world that you can know much about or be proficient at if you spend 1 hour a year working on it.
I used to spend about 10-15 hours a week working on my hobby of dating.
Anything you spend time on you will get better at.
Make dating a priority in your life.
Spend time online looking at dating sites (not spending on them just looking).
Even when you fail in dating it is still a success.
A good salesman could care less about the fifty people who said no, all he cares about is the one who says yes.
A good salesman knows his averages.
Let's say that he knows on average he will make one sale out of fifty.
The 49 times that he hears no are actually positives because he is counting them towards his 50.
He knows that on average he will sell every time he has 49 "no's" so he is striving for the "no's".
You could take the same philosophy with dating and meeting women.
Don't be upset by the rejections, embrace them! If you are frustrated I can understand that.
I have been where you are.
Some people might tell you "hang in there, you will meet someone.
" I won't be so trite.
It is tough and you are in a battle.
In order to become a champion at anything you need to put in the effort though.
Dating is like a sea of wrong people and you are looking for the right one.
Dating is like a hobby, spend time perfecting it.
Dating failures can turn into dating success if you persevere.