What are you willing to give? As many would define it, economics is nothing more then the study of human action.
Think about it on this level: All actions have a cost that goes along with them.
These costs are weighed out in the minds of all human beings.
They often think of the cost of a particular action vs.
the profit they expect or the possible gain for their future.
If you asked many people, they would tell you that economics will only apply to areas that can be measured in dollars and cents and here they would be very wrong! Why is that some of us have priorities that make us strive for continued growth while other are content just to let life pass them by? Well as you may guess the opportunity cost is all relative to the beholder.
Some people do in fact value "vegging out" in front of the T.
V.
much higher then they do reading a book, or learning something new, or even having great sex! We may wonder why would they choose this over that, but as you know by now that is all dependent on where the chooser places value in their life.
My business is that of sex therapy.
I tell all my clients this one quote and they love it "if you get out of sex therapy all there is to get out of sex therapy, then you'll never get out of sex therapy.
" Here is the thing, if a client will fully commit themselves to the process of improving themselves in bed, they will have a higher level of self confidence, of course a better performance in the bedroom, and this equates to a better and deeper relationship with their significant other.
Again this happens in small chucks.
If a man finishes too fast start to try to improve penetration time by only one minute per session.
Never try to jump twenty as that tends to set a man up for failure.
Often times I work with couples struggling through issues of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
I promise you neither of these are fun things.
Other times I just work with men who want to last longer for their female companion.
If you are wanting to have better sex, it is best to learn this one thing now.
All things have a cost.
If you learn to perform better in bed, there may be an associated cost of buying a program or hiring a therapist like myself.
However, the cost of not choosing to do so can have terrible cost on your relationships! I urge men to act if they are having sexual issues, and I urge women to be supportive.
Often these problems are extremely embarrassing for men.
Here the easiest thing men can start working on now to "hold back" during intercourse.
They can learn to stop the flow of their urine.
If you can stop the flow of urine, you have strong PC muscles.
These are the muscles that hold back other fluids as well.
Work these through kegel's etc and you will improve your time in bed immediately.